5 Rules for Xmas Dinner With the Family /
Whether it’s a cousin, aunt, uncle or in-law, everybody has a relative that they don’t like. It’s cool—I have an Uncle Jesse who isn’t my favorite person in the world. He’s anti-social and always has his nose turned up at something that he doesn’t understand. But that’s the thing about family, you may not like ‘em but you damn sure gotta love ‘em! Here are five things that will keep you from becoming your family’s Uncle Jesse …1. WHEN IN DOUBT, JUST DON’T
One of the joys of the holidays is that you get to see relatives that you haven’t seen in a while. With that being said, Christmas or any family gathering is the perfect time to polish what we say and think twice before saying it. It is true that we all love our family, but it is also true that we may not know some of them as well as we’d like. So, during this year’s holiday season, be sure to think twice before you speak—if you think it may offend someone, just don’t say it.
2. BRING IT DOWN
We have to admit that this rule isn’t original. We took it from Pastor Keith Battle’s message on humility. This is important because lack of humility can make the sweetest person seem like a self-absorbed fool wit’ it. This is your family and they’re not fooled by your Facebook profile or your Twitter persona. Don’t feel the need to brag and boast, because your family will always be able to see past the pretense.
3. IT AIN’T CHRISTMAS AT THE GRAMMY’S
It’s okay to look nice at Christmas dinner, but it’s equally as important to look appropriate for the occasion. So fellas, keep the jewelry to a minimum and ladies keep the make-up simple and subtle. Remember: There is no best-dressed list for Xmas dinner.
4. KEEP IT CUTE—DON’T BE A LUSH
First and foremost, KNOW YOUR LIMIT! It’s not okay to show your friends and family that you’re a raging alcoholic. Remember that family talks and the last thing that you want is to be the subject of conversation post-Christmas dinner. Trust me, you’ll regret it.
5. REMEMBER THE REASON FOR THE SEASON
Keep in mind that it is better to give than to receive. So when grandma hands you that pack of socks, wrapped in the same gift wrap from last year, don’t turn your nose up—smile and give a polite thank you. Think about how handy those socks will be during your morning trip to the gym.
Remember these rules and you are guaranteed to have a smooth holiday season with the fam!
XOXO,
Charisma Harley, Fashion & Lifestyle Editor
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